Tuesday, September 18, 2012

A Three Story Life: Bared

Feeling slightly crazy, I have to, as my sister claims I do, find something or someone to blame. Maybe I'm not eating well. Check. Maybe I'm not sleeping. Check. Maybe I've been quite busy, and cannot find spaces and places to chill. Check. Maybe I'm not exercising enough. Or at all. My brain has stopped functioning at its usual high level of adaptation. Cannot make a decision about anything, including what to make for dinner. I just finished illustrating a book, sent it to the printer, got the proofs and it was laid out wrong. Just wrong. And I couldn't figure out either how that happened, or what I could do about it. For days. And I lost my nightgown. Seems like a simple hunt: it never left the dungeon. But it was gone. For days. Until I thought to check under the bed. I'm counting how many times I do dishes in a day, how many undershirts I fold. I left the oven on for half a day on Friday. Just now the Serial Yapper Dog was doing what he does, and Dad was screaming "shut up!" I listened to this, and had no reaction at all. Is this what burnout feels like? My brother and sister-in-law stopped by on Sunday, and while we were talking, Dad got up to go to the bathroom and he was in his underwear. He had his hearing aids in, but he had them on mute. His teeth were on the coffee table. And I had no reaction at all, which is probably for the best, but I wonder. Saw my beautiful friend Carol the other day and we enjoyed a wonderful afternoon. I told her about the brain power save, and she furrowed her brow. For a professional in the field of coping, this furrow was as significant as a doctor saying "hmm." She thinks I may be overwhelmed. I think so too.

1 comment:

  1. Stay strong, my friend, I'm glad you found your nightgown, I'm forever losing my jammies too (or my socks.) It sucks. I spend so much time doing for others I often ask, "Who is going to look after me?" The answer is...I have to (that is, if I want it done right.) I've learned to let my brain go on a holiday and let things go that I used to get all up in knots about, unfortunately, this "safe mode" has bad timing from time to time...(oh well.) So there's a few more dust bunnies collecting in corners, and spider webs with spiders living in them here and there (no, wait, I always did that.) Anyway, my girlfriend's and I have taken up the battle cry "Honey Badger doesn't give a shit." It's even gotten to the point in which it's abbreviated down to just "Badger" and we know what we mean...grab those quiet moments when you can, even in the midst of chaos...take care of you.